what if we PARTY DIFFERENT?
an ALCOHOL & PHONE-FREE PRIVATE DINNER EXPERIENCE
for Chicagoans mixing wellness w/ nightlife
WHERE: The Node Chicago (Bucktown)
PARTY PLAN
Saturday January 25th, 2025
6:30 PM – Arrival
Turn in Phones: Phones will be collected so you can fully immerse yourself in the experience. Professional photo and video will be provided.
7:00 PM – Breathwork
Shift from Stress to Flow: A 30-minute guided session with dynamic techniques and rhythmic breathing to reset and recharge.
7:30 PM – Dinner & Real Talk
Taco Dinner: Enjoy delicious options, including high-quality proteins and vegetarian dishes.
Discussion Topics:
How do you mix wellness with social life?
What’s missing in today’s social scene?
9:00 - 11PM — Chill
Phones Returned: Reconnect digitally or keep it unplugged.
Lounge Hangout: Relax, reflect, and go deeper on connection.
Even if you can’t make this event, your RSVP will grant access to the PARTY DIFFERENT private chat—a space to connect, share ideas, and propel the momentum for this new wave of social life in Chicago.
HOSTED BY:
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World’s 1st Party Coach
What has partying taught you? After spending my first 25 years living & partying in Chicago, I spent the last 15 years working in tech, nightlife, & music industries—exploring the social ecosystems of NYC and LA. From rooftop raves to intimate dinner parties, I experimented with what it means to truly show up in social life. Along the way, I discovered that many of the habits I leaned on—whether substances, social validation, or shallow routines—weren’t leading to the sustainable social life I was craving.
In 2020, I decided to hit reset. I spent two years partying sober, learning how to create nights that mattered without relying on anything external. This journey reshaped how I think about social life, and I began sharing what I learned with others. That’s how I became the world’s first “Party Coach.”
Since then, while I no longer identify as “sober,” I’ve helped hundreds of people build social lives they love—without regret. My work has been featured in GQ, The LA Times, and The Washington Post, not because I have all the answers, but because I ask the right questions: What makes a night memorable? How do we let go of what no longer serves us in our social lives? Is partying much more sacred than we have been lead to believe?
Now, I’m coming home to Chicago to bring these ideas to the place where it all started. This isn’t about being perfect or doing it all; it’s about showing up, trying something new, and building a social life that feels real. I’m so excited to host this event, meet you, and start rethinking how we party—together.
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Founder The Node
Bianca Snyder is the visionary behind The Node, Chicago’s first wellness-focused social club and lounge. As the founder of High Society Mama and Society’s Plant, Bianca has spent years blending personal growth, community connection, and plant medicine to inspire a new kind of social experience. Her work redefines what it means to gather—infusing play, mindfulness, and intention into every event, product, and conversation.
After years of working in the cannabis and wellness industries, Bianca saw a gap in how people connect and grow together. She created The Node as a space where individuals can bridge that gap—a membership-based lounge designed to cultivate deeper connections, explore plant-based healing, and elevate as a collective. The Node isn’t just a place to hang out; it’s a gym for the mind and soul, offering workshops, events, and a vibrant community to help members thrive.
Bianca’s mission is clear: to create spaces and products that heal, inspire, and bring people together. Her work has been a beacon for those seeking purpose-driven connection and sustainable growth, fostering a culture that values authenticity, collaboration, and harmony with the Earth. Whether you’re new to wellness or already deep in the journey, Bianca’s vision for The Node offers something truly transformative.
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Leader of S3 Events & Hospitality.
With experience as both an event curator and a commercial banker, Ben Walker brings a unique perspective to relationship-building and critical thinking.
An avid runner, Ben values staying active and maintaining balance in all areas of life. Outside of work, he enjoys meaningful connections with loved ones and never misses a chance to dance.
Having faced challenges with addiction and depression, Ben embodies resilience and personal growth, proving it’s possible to overcome life’s hurdles and build a fulfilling, purpose-driven life.
Breathwork by Brett
Founder of Paradigm Rhyme, Brett Mackey is a well-being entrepreneur, breathwork facilitator, and energy worker, blending somatics, sound healing, and coaching to create transformative experiences. With a background in corporate consulting, Brett left the traditional path to focus on helping individuals and organizations achieve peak performance and authentic living.
At PARTY DIFFERENT, Brett will lead a 30-minute “pregame breathwork” & “sound healing” session designed to reset your vibe and get you out of your head. Whether you’ve stoked or skeptical about breathwork, this party-friendly approach will leave you feeling grounded, energized, and ready for our night ahead.
(also, we suggest not having heavy meals 2 hours before this type of work—we’ll have plenty of food at dinner!)
FAQ:
What is PARTY DIFFERENT?
PARTY DIFFERENT is a curated dinner and connection experience for forward thinkers ready to reimagine what social life can be. It’s a night to explore meaningful connection, wellness, and nightlife without the usual distractions.
Who is this event for?
This is for pioneers, creators, and those shaping what’s next. If you’re passionate about building authentic connections and exploring new possibilities in social spaces, this event is for you.
Is this a sober event?
Not entirely—it’s a no-booze event. Other plant medicines and ways to elevate your experience are welcome. The focus is on intentional connection and presence, not rules or restrictions.
What’s the dress code?
Dress for a night out. Think confident, intentional, and ready to engage. This is about showing up with purpose.
Where is the event?
You’ll get access to the exact address once you buy your ticket. It is in Bucktown.
What time should I arrive?
Doors open at 6:30 PM. You MUST arrive before 7pm so we can begin breathwork. Phones will be collected at check-in, so arrive on time to settle in and immerse yourself fully.
Why do you collect phones?
To create a space free from distractions, phones will be securely stored during the event. Professional photos and videos will capture the night, so you won’t miss a thing.
What’s included in my ticket?
Your experience includes:
Booze-alternative mocktails, nootropics, & other beverages
A 30-minute guided breathwork session to reset and recharge
A thoughtfully prepared taco dinner
Structured discussions designed to spark ideas and build connections
Access to a private chat channel after the event to continue the conversation
Do I need experience with breathwork?
No prior experience is needed. This session is designed to ease you into the moment, using techniques to help you shift from stress to flow.
What will the discussions be like?
Expect meaningful conversations. Together, we’ll explore questions like:
How can wellness and nightlife coexist?
What’s missing from today’s social scene?
How do we create momentum for a new kind of connection?
What happens after the event?
By RSVPing, you’ll gain access to a private chat channel where we’ll continue building this community. This is more than a single night—it’s the beginning of something larger.